Are *all* the homo baseball enthusiasts flakes, or . . .

I responded to a message on San Diego Craigslist in the "strictly platonic" m4m category. The message was posted by a guy who claimed to be looking for a baseball friend, someone to go to Padres games with. We had coffee and talked about games we wanted to go to together. Not sure if I was too young too tall too what for him, but after making plans to go to a game "soon", I think his nuts must have fallen off, cuz the flake didn't man up and say what happened, he just bought some Kotex & headed for the ladies' room at Petco.

Then some other dude posted a message on the same area of Craigslist seeking a casual buddy to go to baseball games with. He said he'd be up for watching games on his big screen TV together, too. But his words were completely meaningless as well.

Man, these dudes that go to such lengths to get their jollies are *free KEY*!!. Or is this just merely typical and expected San Diego homo BS? I'm still new to town, so I don't know. This nonsense wasn't even about dating (a complete encyclopedia of absurdities available at your local independent bookshop soon). It's about finding a person to get into a hobby with. For fukx sake, guys. Grow a pair and keep this in mind:

Say what you mean. And mean what you say. If you can't do that, don't say it.

If by chance you did say something, and can't keep your word, have a pinch of integrity: communicate that.

It will do wonders for your mood and sense of self-worth. If you don't know what "self-worth" is, just take a leap of faith and try this integrity exercise once or twice. You might find out what "self-worth" means at long last.

Who am I, besides the terse sports fan with the astringent pen & the extra time to use it liberally? I'm a recent transplant from all points up & down the West coast. A David Schwimmer lookalike, I hear all the time, intelligent, easy going, professional, educated, and really want to go to a baseball game before the season is over, and would rather not go alone. But I will, most likely, because the all-too-common abuse of good faith & serious activity-mate seekers amuses me not.

So, if someone is able to follow through with what they say, write me and we can connect and see about it.

Thanks,

Did you want it soap clean or hospital clean, Mr. Clean?

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Pics and vid are cool. Also into groups

If you've read any of my other writings, then my response won't surprise you.

hey,

what the heck does "clean" mean?

a lot of poz guys shower, and consider themselves "clean", certainly clean enough to raw fuck & unload in a boy stupid enough to say "clean" when he means "hiv-negative".

And a "safe guy" isn't the same as safe sex.

I'm writing to help you prevent yourself from getting infected with HIV. Trust me, it's no picnic and nothing to toy around with by not saying what you mean & being much more careful than casually letting strangers insert their bodily fluids in
you.

Thanks, & take care,

What are we going to do with such stupidity? I suppose if we trust in Darwin's Theory of Natural Selection, future generations should become smarter. All I can do is try to point out failures in such dolts' thinking and then let go.

another round of neg 4 neg parties

The party was listed on Adam4Adam.

Looking to get a group of hot neg studs together for a bb gang bang. Need a hot bb btm or 2 and plenty of tops. If someone can host that'd be great too! Must be tone and hot and have pics.

How could I not respond to this moronic party planner?
Yeah, that one there on the right. ----->

I couldn't resist. In hopes of inserting some tiny light of thought or reflection into this cro-magnon's dense skull. I wrote to him,

Neg studs, hope you're pretty damn sure about that, dude. i'm sure you don't want to hear this, but i'm obligated to tell you anyway: in the last 12 months, 14 friends of mine got HIV by using the same method of protecting themselves (barebacking ONLY with other 'neg' guys).

It's a very effective way to get the virus. So like I said, I hope you're pretty damn sure about the serostatus of those 'neg' bb tops and bottoms. That could really fuck up a party, turning someone from neg to poz.

But, what-EV. Just do me a favor and don't be angry with me for writing this. It's not like I'm getting anything out of this, other than taking a bit of time to maybe spare someone the infection. There's only good in my intent.

take care,

I don't expect a reply. Do I ever? Only twice have I heard back from the neg 4 neg recipients of my well wishes and insightful uninvited, and probably unwelcome, perhaps unopened, messages. One was very thankful & positive & said my words had really shook him up, in a good way, and he was going to try to stop fantasizing about that "raw load of charged seed", and a million other poetic ways of describing the entry of the human immunodeficiency virus into the bloodstream, much more erotic somehow and apparently less realistic than the version of truth found earlier on in this very sentence.

The other responder expressed great rage, resentment and shock at my audacity and nosiness. It was none of my business, he really wanted me to understand, what he did, and how he did it, and if he got or wanted to get or pass HIV to anyone else. He didn't get his point across to me at all. I still don't get it.