the Power of the Popular (or Post-Modern) Poz Paradigm


You must believe me despite what you think: i am not judging, but am not going to infect you, either. HIV meds aren't cheap, even with health coverage. Not to mention how often they don't work or stop working.


OK, wait. Actually, I lied. I judge. Everyone does. Constantly. It is what separates humans from all other creatures. Judgment. Free will. It's good stuff, not bad, not negative. Judgment isn't the same as feeling guilt or shame.

Read on. Mind, open, just for a bit, OK?

Wasted viagra? What is this blog all about anyway?

This is my blog which is a record of some of the more outrageous postings I have seen on the Craigslist Personals\M4M section, where guys who are supposedly HIV-negative are looking for bareback tops who are also supposedly HIV-negative.

When I read one of these ads (and there are many, every day, in every small and large city in the country), and feel particularly incensed, and think that I might be able to reach that person in some small way by telling them my experiences with how that has worked out for so many people doing what they are doing, then I go ahead and write them, and post their original ad, as well as my email to them, to my blog. It makes me feel better about seeing all those ads, at least trying to get them to stop the insanity, or, at least, admit to them that I don't know their situation, that maybe their ability to at least specify that they want an HIV-negative partner is already a big step for them, that for some people they actually have taken much time and thought a lot about how they are going to approach sex and dating and for some of them, it is an acceptable risk to play, even bareback, with people who at least are declaring themselves HIV-negative.

Some of these people do realize that it is akin Russian Roulette with varying odds. Some of them think that at least they are upping their odds by "only barebacking" with guys who at least identify as HIV-negative. I don't know if the statistic is still correct of 50% of the HIV-infected population in the US being unaware, but if that is the case, the odds still aren't great for these guys. It is very very risky and a very effective way to become infected with HIV, this whole "UB2" world.

I can't say that I know anything about it, either, and I admit that to them, because I have been HIV+ for longer than I was HIV-. Born 1964, infected 1983, you do the math. :-)

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You must believe me despite what you think: i am not judging, but am not going to infect you, either. HIV meds aren't cheap, even with health coverage. Not to mention how often they don't work or stop working. OK, wait. Actually, I lied. I judge. Everyone does. Constantly. It is what separates humans from all other creatures. Judgment. Free will. It's good stuff, not bad, not negative. Judgment isn't the same as feeling guilt or shame. Read on. Mind, open, just for a bit, OK?

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Whistle the tune with me: Where Have All The Young Men Gone?

I couldn't fuck you, bareback or otherwise, knowing you have a bf. But especially not bareback, knowing you're neg, or actually, probably are poz, but could easily be unaware and passing it on to other supposedly neg guys who also fuck bareback, even if they think they are restricting their barebacking to only do it with their "neg" bros.
Absurd. And so misguided and such a transparent lie, to themselves.
It's too bad, I guess, for you, or for me, but thanks anyway. And dude, take care, really. Um, it also seems you believe HIV is as inevitable (and as benign) as Herpes. If the literally millions of dead could hear you say that, can you imagine the insult and disrespect and dishonor they would feel? Think about that and if you can, try to imagine the behavior and attitude who decides that he alone is stronger than a virus which so many have died while trying to overcome.
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markyvr1983 said: do u look good in denin? i'm neg (I think), but has no problem if u r pos. I'll get the bug anyway, want it witha HOT FUCKING guy :) mark---
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Monday, October 15, 2007

neg bottom looking to stay up and party with tops


neg bottom looking to stay up and party with tops
Let's party! I'm pretty inexperienced with Partying but willing to try it out again (no lectures). NEG bottom here 5'8'', 170, 31W, 6"C, insatiable blonde/blue bottom with a tight pink hole.

Send your FACE AND BODY. what was that? Face and Body. In first email. Thanks! Please be handsome, athletic, top, and HIVnegative!!!, Thanks guys! I have more pics to send. Looking for you to host! Raw could be fun if you are neg.


dude, how long you think you'll be able to post an ad on Craigslist like that, I mean, "neg bottom..." if you are going to be taking raw dick up your ass?

Want to know the answer? Here it is: Not very long. Yup. Asking that the dudes be hiv-negative is good, it's better than not specifying it at all, but you should understand (and I assume you don't) that fucking bareback is basically a very quick and effective way to get infected with HIV.

So whatever, have fun, but don't think you're being "safe" by only barebacking with other "neg" guys, because it's bullshit, got it?

ps - please before you write me back with some angry words about how it's none of my business, remember this: yes, you're right, so why would I bother to take some time & write you if I wasn't doing it *for* you. I have nothing to gain. I'm only trying to prevent someone (duh... you) from getting HIV. Trust me, after having it for more than 24 years, it's no picnic. I was just a kid when I got it, "it" didn't even have a name, and I don't recommend it if you can avoid it. But I don't judge, for real, I can't... I honestly have no idea what it is like to be HIV-negative, since once the test came out, boom! I was already poz. So I don't know if it's hard, or what the temptation to fuck bareback is like. Anyway, enough. Take care,

Will

Saturday, October 13, 2007

Honi soit qui mal y pense. Cowards? They come in all sizes

I'm a safe neg bottom who wants to experience what a real fuck is all about, but have always played it safe. I'd like to find a hot older top who's been VERY recently tested and can show that he's NEG, to introduce me to the feeling of skin on skin.

Wanted: NEG top to introduce me to BB fun - 43

Total bottom here, very oral. Don't need or want to be "pleased," just want to make a top vey happy. I like intense fucks, so hopefully you can do that.

I'm a very discreet bi wm, clean, ddf, n/s--you be, too*. You need to host.
Dude, don't!!!

It's a long slippery slope... anyway, I just wanted to let you know that a lot of guys out there purposely lie about their status (there are some messed up SICK fukks out there, ya... they're the other side of the

*: bitch, you know what? FUCK you. "you be" is an imperative. it's a command. it's like what you say to your dog: "Sit." "Stay". "Fetch." But this is something that you are writing to the gay population at large, and you are not stating your desire, you are commanding obedience. It's fucking bullshit.
Some of us, me, in particular, were not infected with HIV out of choice. Some of us didn't get sloppy with our safe-sex practices, or get tired of having to wear rubbers, or wanted to experience all the fun everyone's talking about (barebacking, breeding, cumloads, etcetcetc).
Some of us, me again, bitch, were just falling in love in the early '80's, falling in love, bitch, you read me? And we got infected just the same.

but it'

Friday, September 28, 2007

Jock bottom hosting TOP stud in my hotel.

Jock bottom hosting TOP stud in my hotel. - 27
Woke up horned outta my mind this morning. Been in town working all week and have today off. HIV neg, 5' 10" 160. 7.5cut. Masculine, smooth. HIV neg safe bottom looking for a guy around my age to late 40s married or masculine HIV neg TOPs who LOVE to bareback and breed jock hole. You are clean, safe, HIV neg, who is hot, white/latin/black & knows how to have good sex. Not into endless emails. Send a pic in your first email and come over. Can host till 4 pm.

Also totally cool with just giving you head and swallowing.

Check out this boy's sweet fuckin' pictures. Too bad he's as dumb as a box of rocks.

To use his writing style to describe him, I'd say, "You are ignorant, unaware, stoopid and might have a death wish. Being masculine is not as important to me as is your being someone who will infect me with the human immunodeficiency virus, strain unimportant (as long as I get plenty of variety over the next few days). You come in, I ask you to confirm that you are HIV neg verbally, which you do, then having known me for all of 45 seconds, I get your dick up my ass unwrapped and beg you to flood my useless slimy pre-cumfilled cunt with even more cum."

Amazing, huh? What prose! What poetry! What another stupid fuck on Craigslist who will before too long be posting ad like, "Poz bottom looking for loads". Stupid ignorant FUCK. Probably, very likely even, a very selfish not-very-good fuck, at that.

L-O-S-E-R

flood my asss w/ur huge load!

flood my asss w/ur huge load! - 40


bareback only. clean n diease-free. fill me up, squirt ur big load up my asss. can HO-st NOW! send ur pixxx ASSAP.


Oh Jeezuz!!! This pathetic loser has GOT to be kidding.

Sunday, September 23, 2007

Wimps Read Books; Jokks Them Time Cannot Read Nuthinge


MUSCULAR BB BOTTOM ****FOR NOW*****

musuclar* bottom boy great worked out bodt 5'11 165lb 8thick cock, looknig 4 a hot BB top clean and neg here u b 2 send and stats
"Clean and neg here." (yeah, for the moment, if that even is true). The thing is, these posters don't do when they seroconvert (and I'm pretty sure the statistics are high, somewhere around 75% of those that actually do ever go get tested and then tell the truth about it) -- what they don't do, which if they did would be so helpful, is to post basically the same message except they probably say "Discreet" or some such bullshit instead of the sheepshit way they say it in these posts: clean, u b 2.

What do they do, ask their prospective sperminators-dates to, dudes, submit a You Tube vid of themselves holding a newspapers while they scrub themselves with Zest? As IF!

WTF?? **Muscles, abs, etc. but skim cottage cheese for brains, huh?


Strangers in the night (with their heads in the sand)



Dude,

So I'm cruising along, reading the ads that are listed in my Craigslist search for "bb" under "men seeking men". . . Your headline pops out to me... Anonymous Fucking - 34... catches my eye, of course, being that I'm a hung horny bareback top man, 42 look 32, and am always up for a hot raw fuck -- within certain boundaries.


5'10", 165lb inshape bttm looking for anonymous top to fuck my bttm. Poppers ok. No disease or drugs please*. uninhibited bb bttm here, but that doesnt mean i have low standards. must be masc, good looking, hung, and healthy to play, pic is a must


So, WTF do you mean by "No disease or drugs please"? You can fuckin' bet that if you really do this shit and get your craiglist hole screwed bareback (whether or not you 'take loads') -- you will before too long, have a pretty serious disease yourself. It's called HIV-infection, in case you haven't heard of it.\

Your post will look much better on my blog with a picture next to it. Check it out. http://wastedviagra.blogspot.com

*
At least it says "please" -- manners are sooo important aren't they, I mean, if you're going to get some anonymous infective biofluids anally inserted by a complete stranger, don't you agree? that's what Emily Post taught this one, apparently -- maybe this dizzy poster should have paid more attention in 10th grade Health class, than in those after-school Charm school classes at the community college...